Post break up

We haven't spoken which is normal for the first week or two after our breakups. I have been strangely calm since we parted though. Today I got in a good work out and a great run (it's 72° here today, I must say southern winters are much better than being frozen for 4 months), and I've just been oddly happy today.

I guess when we break up, I get to relax. I don't have to worry every hour or so how he is feeling. I am allowed to focus on my needs without feeling selfish. I'm not saying I don't love being with him, I'm only saying it is a lot of work. I do love him and will always in some capacity, but he might just not be able to handle that right now. Maybe he will next week or 8 years from now. I don't know but right now, this may just be the best thing for both of us.

Here's to obtaining happiness in whatever situation you find yourself in.